Sunday, July 28, 2013

Beijing to Xian to Changsha

I'm way behind on writing and posting--we are now in Guilin and have had an amazing time here climbing up the rice terraces and going on a fabulous white water rafting trip.  I'll have to share about that later, but here is my next journal parts:
 
July 16, 2013 Summer Palace and Acrobats

Christopher has done a great job of learning the subway system here in Beijing.  I’ve been to the Summer Palace before with the China tours and Christopher and I went by taxi last time.  This time, Chris finds a subway route which takes us right up to the gate.  To get there does take three changes of lines, but now the kids are experts too.  I know after yesterday that we need to buy tickets as we board at the first station and not try to buy ahead for the next trip.  I did that yesterday and then we couldn’t use those tickets in a different station for the return trip.  We’ve also learned that we look for a line that isn’t too busy (actually, there isn’t a line, it is more like a clump in front of each door) and then when the doors open, we let the people out, then quickly shove our way inside.  Most of the time, we don’t get a seat and stand in the middle.  We’ve learned to balance as the train goes by standing sideways.

We get cold water bottles cheap outside and I manage to buy the tickets to go in.  Luckily, although there are many people there, the lines aren’t crazy to get tickets the way they were at the Forbidden City.  We enter a place that is different from what I remember.  There is a waterway with boats going alongside and shops on two stories.  It reminds me of the River Walk in San Antonio.  The kids are a bit cranky and we stop to buy popsicles, which have a coconut banana flavor that I remember from when Chris and I bought some at Tiananmen square last trip.

We see the Marble Boat, which is being restored and so is wrapped up in green like all the buildings which are being built in China.  I get us lost in going around but Christopher finds the long pathway.  Like all of the Chinese tourists, the kids mostly just want to sit and look around but Christopher and I take a stroll to really look at the paintings.  I notice a variety of styles, from very ornate paintings which seem to depict legends, to stylized fish, birds and flowers.  There are some black and white paintings and a number of paintings of scenes around the Summer Palace.  I notice there is a crane at the top of each middle section.  I’d love to know the stories behind the paintings.  Later, I find a book about them at one of the shops, but all the explanations are in Chinese.  I also see a restaurant which serves recipes from all the old Imperial dishes.

We don’t aim quite that high and go to a small noodle joint close to the long corridor.  It is busy and they actually sort of clear away a family for us.  We have this happen other times in China too.  It is a little embarrassing, but we were glad to be able to sit down together and eat.  We get some very good dumplings, steamed buns and noodle soup.  Generally, people seem to order one dish a person, but we generally like to share and have some of everything.  Since we don’t get plates outside of what the dishes come in this sort of becomes a problem.  Either we have to eat from the same dish or else improvise.  In this case, I use some plastic bags for putting the food on.  The steamed buns are rapidly becoming a family favorite. We are also appreciating the difference between homemade noodles and store bought ones. We have to order some more buns.  The whole meal is around $10 for all of us.  Then we leave when another family arrives and sits down in Steffi’s seat when she was up putting some trash out.

On the way out of the Palace we see a sign “Mind the Hills” and take a picture.  I say that is my spiritual lesson for the day, I need to pay attention to the hills along the way and “mind” them so that I keep on track.

After rest and a dinner of buns from our favorite 7-11 store across the way, we head in a van to the acrobats.  Along the way, we have a great time visiting with a young man from Germany and an Australian.  We also meet an 18 year old German girl who is traveling all alone on her first overseas trip.  We are astounded at the number of young European girls traveling here in China.  I actually can’t imagine sending my daughter on a trip by herself.  The Australian man was quite an adventurer.  He told us about the many places he had been, saying the the people of Burma and India were the ones he liked best because they always laughed at everything.  He also surprised me by saying that he was planning to get a root canal done in China because it was much cheaper than in Australia.  Having just undergone that myself, I’m not entirely sure I’d want to go a cheaper route.  We were glad to share who we are and what we are doing in China with more Europeans.

At the theater, we are surprised to find it entirely filled with groups of school kids.  Even though we are attending a 7:30 showing, it is apparently a popular place for kids to go on a special trip.  The whole atmosphere is like a carnival.  They are selling glow sticks, glo devil’s horns and clown wigs, as well as popcorn.  Unfortunately, the kids are not well behaved and we find that they make a lot of noise during the performance, and aren’t particularly appreciative of it either.  However, we do have a lot of fun before the performance when a group of pre-teens sitting in front of us want to take pictures of Brendan.  After a few of these, Christopher decides to tell the girls that Brendan is a famous movie star.  Then, inspired by the posters we’ve seen on the subway for a Cirque de Soleil performance of “Michael Jackson’s World Tour,” we tell the girls that Brendan is “Michael Jackson.”  In a few moments, a girl pulls out her notebook and asks for an autograph.  Brendan signs “Michael Jackson” while we laugh.  Pretty soon, the adult in charge of the girls comes to hush them down and the show starts.

amazing.  They do balancing acts, a chain act where two men swing around and balance on one another perfectly, three women balancing glasses and moving their bodies in incredible and seemingly impossible positions.  The Chinese Yo-Yo act was not quite a good, but the same group of girls did an excellent bicycle balancing act which eventually has about 20 girls all balancing on one girl riding a bike.  The crowning act, however, came when they bought out a big ball.  A motorcyclist came out and rode all around the ball on the inside.  That was spectacular, especially when they turned out the lights and all you could see was the lights on the bike.  Then they added a second bike and the two bikes rode around in opposite directions.  That seemed spectacular enough, but they kept on going.  Eventually, they had 5 motorcyclists riding around in impossible patterns in the ball.  Quite something to see.  As we left, our bus went past the whole downtown area.  It was packed with people.  Living in a big city is different than Waco!

July 17 South tower, Wangfuging, night market

After a late night, we let everyone sleep in a while.  By now we have become seasoned subway riders.  Everyone knows how to put their bags through security, grab their ticket, scan it at the turnstile and then move to wait for the subway train.  When it arrives, you move to the side to let the people off and then quickly shove the whole family on.  Usually, we stand for the whole ride.  It helps that most of us a pretty tall and can grab the top rails easily.  We watch the map by the door which blinks lights to tell you which station you are at and which station you are going towards.  When you arrive, the light on the side of the door tells you which door to exit.  “Kearney family out” is the signal, and we all rush out to the platform, gathering plenty of looks and stares along the way.  We usually have to stop and figure out which way we need to exit.  Christopher’s understanding of Chinese characters has helped us out a lot.  Although I took the lead in making most of our travel arrangements, it has been a huge relief to me that he has taken the lead in actually leading us around the city.  He and Brendan and Maggie (who also have more written Chinese than I do) work together to figure out the map, the bus and subway system and our directions.

One of our prayers for this trip was that we would pull together as a family and really learn to work together.  I can really see that as different children take the lead to say something cheerful when something goes wrong, or volunteer to help another one out.  

This time, we go to the south of Tiananmen square to visit a tower that Christopher and I had found by accident the last time we visited.  It gives a nice view of the whole square and has a lot of historical information about the area inside which helps to put this area in perspective.  I like the old photographs which show the city when it had a wall.  This tower was part of the original wall, but when Beijing no longer needed a defensive wall, they took it down to make the movement of traffic and people easier.  The next city we will visit, Xian, has retained the old wall.

Inside, we look at the exhibits and climb upward on stairs that are very steep.  Maggie talks with a painting instructor there who explains to her about the different techniques of Chinese painting and paints her name for her.  We have him do a painting of Steffi’s name and buy two paintings done by his students.  Outside, we find a bench which happens to be exactly the same bench we have in our garden.  Of course, we think, it was made in China!

Looking out from the tower, you can see Mao’s mausoleum, the front gates of the Forbidden City, the Railroad Station and the Capital Museum.  You also get an excellent view of the square.  We’ve seen many people just walking around there in family groups or standing and watching at the front. 

We go back on the subway and head up to Wanfujing Avenue.  Here we split up into the people who want to visit the Apple Store and those who want to visit the huge Forever 21 store.  We notice that the prices of the items are about the same as in the U.S.  We then meet up back at the English Language bookstore where everyone finds some books to look at.  As we leave, we go around the corner to look at the famous Night Market, which is a street full of food vendors who do local treats.  They have caramelized fruit, dumplings, fried donut type foods, big rolled omelets, kebabs of meat and kebabs of various insects: cockroaches, tarantulas, and scorpions.  There are also octopus on a stick and a variety of other things we can’t exactly identify.  We try a few, but we are a little concerned about eating food that might disagree with us, so we mostly just look.  Mollie doesn’t like the fish smells.  A lot of the foods we eat do seem to have a fishy taste to them.  I think it may be because they are cooked in at least a little bit of fish oil.  After a while of looking, we head back home to rest and enjoy the conversation and atmosphere of the commons area at our hostel. 

We are leaving early tomorrow, so we need to be careful to pack up.  Astoundingly, I seem to have no end of trouble about losing things this day.  I lose my room key.  I lose Maggie’s camera.  I lose a locker key.  I finally have to tell people to stop giving me things to keep!  I find everything but the locker key, which I’m able to replace for just 10 yuan (about $1.50).  We get packed up and go to bed early.

July 18, 2013, Fly to Xian

We get up at 4:00 to get ready to leave at 5:00.  Amazingly, we do seem to get everything packed up and we are ready when the van driver comes.  We are there in plenty of time to find out luggage check in line and we get to our gate about an hour ahead of the flight.  Everyone else sits down to wait but I like to explore, so I walk around the airport a bit.  I find that they give out drinking water and cups.  Buying water and drinks is also very inexpensive from the machines, unlike at an American airport (about 2 yuan for water (30 cents) or 5 yuan for a bottle of coke ( 85 cents).

We take a shuttle bus over to our plane and the older people seem to like Steffi.  The people here tend  

 The flight is uneventful except that, unlike American flights, we get two meals during a five hour trip, and have to disembark and then reboard the same airplane when we make a stop.  I panic a bit when I realize I’ve misplaced Steffi’s and Sophie’s tickets.  Will they let us back on the plane?  Luckily, we are so evidently foreigners that we often get a bit more grace.  They want us to get off the plane so they can clean it, so they assure us we will be let back on.  Since we are the only non-Asians on the plane it won’t be hard to miss us, I suppose.

We had hoped that someone from the hostel would be there with a van to pick us up, but I had not confirmed the residervation and so when we don’t see anyone, we find the shuttle bus that takes us downtown.  We get on and off of that easily, but do have a bit of a stressful time when we get off the shuttle and aren’t sure the way to the hotel. It is crowded, I’m worried about my luggage and the escalators aren’t working so we have to drag our suitcases up the stairs.

 Christopher does a great job of guiding us, but it is a pretty hot day and I haven’t secured my luggage very well for moving over the streets.  It feels like it takes forever to get to the hostel and I lose my patience and feel annoyed.  I panic again wondering if I’ve chosen a good place to stay?

Ironically, as we retraced that same path leaving Xian, I realized that the distance wasn’t far at all.  This second time, I knew where we were going and I had prepared better for the distance by tying my suitcases together and packing more carefully.  The spiritual lesson I took from this is that I need to be is patient when the way seems difficult.  Sometimes the difficulty is really more about my own perspective or lack of preparation, or maybe just because it is something new which is stretching me and making me grow.  I need to remember that I will often look back on that time and realize that it wasn’t as hard as I had perceived it to be.

July 19 (Terra Cotta Warriors)

We all had a great night’s sleep.  Even so, everyone was a little grumpy in my room and saying they were tired and really just wanted to stay in the room.  They wondered why we were away all summer.  Chris and I have definitely seen that vacation moods go in cycles.  You have to expect that people in a family, especially a family as big as ours, are not always going to be happy all the time.  As parents, we know that sometimes it helps to stop and get something to eat, maybe a treat.  Or sometimes, you just have to get them to keep on going because you know that in just a short white there will be something they will be excited about.  This morning, I was so glad to have Chris come in the room with a funny story.  He’d just met a French family in the lobby and found out that they needed help.  They didn’t know any Chinese and they didn’t even know much English.  Not enough to communicate with the hotel staff anyway.  He had helped them to ask some questions about touring.  We marveled at a family brave enough to travel to China by themselves when they only knew French (which isn’t exactly extensively studied here!)  We realized how lucky we are to be native English speakers.

We could have taken a tour to the Terra Cotta Warriors, but Chris has figured out how to get there on the bus, so we decide to give it a try.  It was a great decision.  We find the first bus pretty quickly, and enjoy paying just 1 yuan (about 30 cents) to ride it.  We remembered paying  a lot more to ride a double decker bus in San Francisco a couple of years ago!  The bus drops us off at the train station, which is where we need to catch the bus to the Terra Cotta Warriors.  There are so many people at the train station!  Everyone has suitcases.  We finally go to the line of buses and find a lot of people in line.  We manage to figure out this is one of the lines of buses to the Warriors.  It is hot, so we pull out our umbrellas.  They work great!  I may start using one in Waco in the summer!  I’d taken them for rain, but it doesn’t rain all day.  Even so, they were well worth hauling around to keep protected from the sun when we were in line.  Eventually we get on and sit in the back.  The ride is air conditioned and very comfortable.  The only problem is that the attendant wants us to have Steffi sit on a lap.  We try to explain we will pay for her ticket, and eventually she gives in.  The tickets cost 7 yuan, or just a little over $1 each.  When we eventually get tickets to see the Warriors, we find that we only need to buy them for me and Chris, so the whole trip ends up costing about $65.  If we’d gone on a tour, it would have cost $326.  We could have paid that, but we wouldn’t have had any better of an experience since you really don’t need a guide once you get there, and going on our own let us take the museum at our own pace. 

Just off the bus, we found a small restaurant to eat at.  We ordered a variety of very good noodle, bun and fried rice dishes, along with an excellent vegetable dish.  Amazingly, even though we’ve been pretty brave in our eating, everyone has been feeling well.  Chris is the only one who has had any tummy issues and they haven’t been too bad.  We even find filtered water to fill up our bottles.  The meal costs 120 yuan, or about $20. 

Heading toward the Warriors, the kids enjoy looking at the street sellers.  We eventually buy a few things.  Sophie gets a folk art backpack, Maggie buys two folk art stuffed animals, Brendan and Steffi get mini Terra Cotta warriors, and we buy three kites.

We watch the movie about the warriors and then look at all three of the pits.   I explain what I remember reading about from a book about the Warriors that I read on the way home last trip.  Along with the plaques in the museum, I think the kids got as much information as they wanted.  Chris jokes that each of the kids needs to find a warrior that they name.  Steffi and Brendan take some funny pictures near some jade Warriors.

Chris and I wonder about the individual features of each figure.  They really do seem to be real people.  I notice that even the hairs are clearly molded on the heads.  Was being made a warrior an honor?  Did it mean that these men would be with their emperor in the afterlife?  I’m amazed that after conquering China, building the Great Wall and ruling everything around him that nothing he did on earth was satisfying to this powerful man.  He knew death was coming.  He was afraid.  Death is something we ignore a lot in our world.  Yet just like Qin, we all will have to face it.

We have a smooth trip home and I enjoy again looking out the window of the bus and imagining the lives of the people I pass.  How different they are from me, and yet they have the same fears, needs, desires, hopes and dreams.  I try to pray for different individuals as I pass by.  It is a sort of prayer by bus.  I notice many of the grandmas who are taking care of a shop and also taking care of a grandchild, who is often sitting on a stool by the door.  I remember the very old grandma, who looks perhaps as if she has dementia, who is sitting a ways outside a shop, watching the passersby.  I wonder if her son or daughter brings her there each day when they go to work, to give her something to do.  I notice a man on a motorcycle who is carefully using his feel to hold on to eight cartons of 24 eggs as he drives along, probably to a place he will sell them.  I see a family of four, walking along contentedly.  So many people.  I know so little about them, but I remember that God knows them as intimately as he knows me.  I can pray that he will speak to them and bring them to himself, though the witness of people around them and through signs, dreams, visions and his word.

We get back to town and take the double decker bus up the shopping center.  We treat the family to McDonalds.  It is actually cheaper than the States.  We get a meal for 7 for under $20.  We get small ice cream cones afterwards and look at the bell tower and drum tower as they are lit up for the night.  Birds swoop around them eating insects.  We go through the underground tunnels to find our way back to the hostel.

Chris plays pool and ping pong and cards with Steffi and Sophie.  I take a shower and then head out to catch up on journaling.  I listen to “I’m leaving on a jet plane” and “Blowing in the Wind” while various Europeans and others pass me by in the lobby.  This hostel is bigger and a bit less intimate but there are more commons areas and the décor is very new and beautifully done.  Best of all, there is free hot and cold water on every floor.  However, they do seem to allow some smoking and I’m smelling it now, so I think I’d better turn in for the night.

July 20 The Nestorian Steele and Shopping in China

If you like shopping, then China offers endless opportunities.  After all, just about everything we have in America is “made in China.”  Yet, as tourists, we mostly want souveniers which are unique to China and not just something we could get at a mall back home.  How can you take home something to remind you of your trip?  Last trip, Chris and I had discovered a street in Xian which sells lots of unique Chinese items, so since our crew was itching to shop, we headed down there.  We had lots of fun looking and lots of fun buying too.  The single “weapons” cart was the most popular.  Steffi,  Mollie and Brendan bought an assortment of daggers and swords, while Sophie got a crossbow which shoots pencils (with rubber tips). Maggie got jade jewelry and purses for friends.  Christopher got a jade turtle and an instrument he actually was able to play.  We had lots of fun looking and bargaining too, although we generally have followed the idea that my dad told me, “you need to pay people a living wage,” meaning that you don’t want to cheat people and people deserve to get a decent price for their goods and services.  So if the item was worth the price asked to us, we paid it without bargaining.  If nothing else, this trip has deeply impressed us with how very much wealth we have compared to other people.  I was actually glad to be able to buy goods from some of the people who didn’t seem to be getting a lot of other business.  Maybe that would help them take care of their families.  We had one funny problem.  There was an older man in charge of a booth selling some stuffed folk art toys.  The girls wanted them for themselves and friends, but when I went over to ask him the price “Do Shou Chen?” I realized he was asleep.  I tried again but he didn’t wake up.  So we went on and waited until we came back out, when we found him awake and more than happy to sell us the items for 10 yuan each (about $1.60).  Lots of thing are 10 yuan, I guess because it is an easy amount to ask for.

Along the way, we met a Chinese college student named Grace who wanted to practice talking to us in English.  She told us that she has volunteered to be a guide in Xian to practice her English but that there are not that many English speaking tourists.  It is true that we are not seeing as many Europeans or Americans here as in Beijing.  She and Maggie exchange contact information.

One other thing I wanted to show the children is in this area at the Forest of Steeles museum.  It is the Nestorian Steele, which is a record of the first Christian community in China.  The Steele (which like all the others is a large stone tablet about 3 feet by 6 feet which is covered in Chinese Writing) was lost for many years and the story of this early Christianity was forgotten in other historical documents.  However, it records that in around 600-700 AD there were Christians who came to China and converted a number of people and had influence at the court.  When the emperor who supported the Christians was overthrown, the Christians disappeared.  How provocative to know that Chinese people had the opportunity to know and embrace Christianity so early.  How important to understand that Christianity has a longstanding presence here. 

The Steele rests on a very large stone turtle pedestal, which Maggie said symbolized longevity.  At the top of the Steele is a small carved cross.  The day is hot and I know the kids are not all that interested in the rest of the museum, but I wanted them to see this symbol of their faith and symbol of the persistence of Christians in the past in China.

What future does God have for China and the Chinese people?  How do the adopted girls figure into what God is doing with the people of China?  I know that for our family, adoption means that China is now a part of our family and our culture.  I remind the kids that according to some figures, 1 out of 10 people in China is now a Christian.  Those are large numbers and may be rather exaggerated, but even with much smaller numbers, it means that everyday we are passing many, many Christians.  We can pray for them to grow in faith and to be effective in their witness here.

 

July 21 Shaanxi Museum and Wild Goose Pagoda (or, what happens when you get on the bus going the wrong direction?)

Luckily, it is cooler and rainy today.  We hang around the hostel in the morning and then head out to the Shaanxi Museum in the afternoon.  The bus is very crowded and so are the lines at the museum, however, I’d learned ahead of time that you can pay a nominal fee rather than waiting in line for the free tickets.  So I find the line for that, show our passports and get our tickets to go in.  Even so, this is Sunday and the museum is very crowded with visitors.  Still, we are able to show the kids come of the major events and artifacts of Chinese history.  Even Steffi finally is interested in the brass bells of all different sizes which are hung in rows and hit with a stick to make tones like a xylophone.  We see the exhibit which shows that the Lords before Qin, who made the Terracotta Warriors buried live horses and men in their graves.  We see a movie and artifacts showing the start of the silk road by a group of 100 men who are gone for 17 years with only 2 returning alive.  We see the lives of the emperors and their courts and see the 3 inch gold disks that they used to store their wealth.  We also see how as each group gained power, they thought quickly about what would happen to them when they died.  The question Christianity answers has always been on the mind of anyone who actually achieves power, success and fame.

We leave when the museum closes.  On the way out, Sophie and I head to the bathroom and as we walk in there is a big crash.  It sounds like a large porcelain dish breaking.  Then we see a woman calmly walking out of a bathroom stall while parts of the toilet fall out behind her in pieces.  We look at each other.  Her purse or something must have knocked over the top of the toilet, but she was acting like nothing had happened!

We walk over a couple of blocks and find the Wild Goose Pagoda.  Before seeing it, we decide to eat at the “Best Noodle Restaurant.”  We have a great meal and enjoy talking with one another, although for part of the time everyone is on their electronic devices except for mom, who is taking pictures of everyone on their ipods or ipads.  The meal is really good food and we’ve finally decided our best bet is to eat out at a sit down restaurant once a day and then have bread, snacks and sandwiches that we can buy and eat on our own for the other meals.

After dinner we head over to the Pagoda and find out that there is a large area in front of it that is full of fountains and waterfalls and lots of people.  One of the people at the hostel had told me there was a music program with dancing and lights starting at 9:00 but that is too late for us, so we just plan to stay a while to watch the fountains and people who are all taking lots of pictures, especially “fun” pictures where they make it look like someone is holding up the Pagoda.  There is even a man there selling pictures like that.  There are people flying kites up very high, and later we find out these kites have lights on them which looks really amazing in the sky.  I’ve never seen kites up so high.

What really attracts the girls is a woman who is blowing big bubbles that float through the air and another woman who is selling ribbons for ribbon dancing.  They all want one, and then become that woman’s best sales team by twirling them around the plaza and having a great time.  Mollie is especially good at thinking of new ways to twirl around and patterns to make.  After a while some of the lights start appearing and more people are coming.  We decide it is time for us to head back.  Looking for things to eat for breakfast, we head over to something labeled “Supermarket” but that ends up being a disappointment.  We get bottles of water there and then look for the bus.  On the way, the kids see someone selling “Beats” ear phones for  10 yuan.  Brendan had seen these earlier and told me he wanted them, so we’d been looking for them.  He tells the girls that these sell for $100 or more in the U.S. and are considered very cool.  We figure these are probably knock-offs or factory rejects, but at under $2.00 it seems worth it.  After quickly getting several, we hop on the bus which Chris has just seen coming.  It does seem to me as we get on that we might be going the wrong direction, but I’ve been wrong several times on this trip, so I am very happy to have Chris being in charge of this job of getting us around.
We start heading around the pagoda.  That is the opposite direction of our hostel.  We keep on heading South.  We want to go North.  We do see some of the light show and a very amazing mall which seemed to have a ceiling
which projected all kinds of scenes.  Then we see an amusement park.  Then, the bus stops and we are all told to get off.  This is definitely not our stop.  So, what do you do when you go the wrong way on the bus?  Chris goes to talk to the driver and is told to get back on the next bus.  Apparently, this was the break time for that driver, but the other driver on the route leaves in just a few minutes .  One more step of faith.  I explain to Mollie, who is our child who always worries about things closing and being left behind, that a bus route is a circle, so that if we just keep on going, we should eventually get to where we want to go.  I hope this is true.  I’m pretty sure this is true.

So we get back on and keep on going.  At this point, we have now seen a lot of the city we didn’t know about.  Eventually, we get back to the Wild Goose Pagoda, which is now starting the light show and music.  We breathe a great sigh of relief when we find ourselves passing the bus stop we were supposed to take.  Chris talks with the driver about our stop and he promises to tell us when to get off.  I praise Mollie for being so calm and conquering her fears.  It isn’t just me who is learning that God is with us and will take care of us.

We get to see the Bell Tower area all in lights.  The sight is a beautiful ending to the day.

July 22 Bampo Museum

It is raining a bit today as we head for the Bampo Museum, so the weather is cooler and the walk is pleasant.  We start the trip by finding a restaurant in a hotel near our hostel.  This is a fancy place where the waiters give us our napkins and we sit together around a large round table.  There aren’t many other people in the place and we enjoy ordering from the menu which includes all kinds of fancy things.  We’ve learned to try to get things the kids would like first, but Chris and I usually pick something for ourselves.  This time we get a dish which is served in a carved pumpkin.  It comes out looking lovely, with an orchid on the side.  It is supposed to be a seafood dish and after trying it, we decide what they meant by seafood was sea cucumber or something like that.  There are definitely things which seem like mushrooms in it.  Christopher really doesn’t like mushrooms, and I like them, but can’t eat too much of the dish.  We fare better with most of the other things but the food does take a while to arrive since it seems like it is being cooked from scratch just for us.  We are also surprised at the huge portions of everything.  We eat a lot and everyone gets full, but we leave a lot behind.

 The trip out the museum is the most crowded bus we’ve been on yet.  I’m actually just barely in the door and two people are behind me on the stairs of the bus!  The driver keeps on telling people to move back but they can’t.  The ride is pretty slow and we finally pass the first accident we’ve seen in China, really just a fender bender.  The lack of accidents seems amazing based on the crazy way people drive with only a few inches to spare.  Maggie comments that they are really good drivers, and that is true because they seem to be able to negotiate spaces I can’t even imagine trying.  She and I saw a car parked completely straight in between two trees with only about 10 inches to spare on either side.  How did they do that?

The bus leaves us off right in front of the museum which is great.  Unlike the Terra Cotta Warriors, which let the kids in free, the lady at this museum decides to charge full price because they don’t have Chinese student cards.  However, when we finally look at the tickets, we realize that she charged half price for our two “Chinese” girls.  The museum is a bit expensive but there are no crowds, so our tour is much more pleasant than yesterday.  They’ve finished the exhibits they were still working on when we were here before and the kids enjoy the interactive book which lets you motion to turn the electronic pages.  They also like the holograph showing the making of tools in 3-D. 

The Bampo were Neolithic people who lived in this area about 6,000 years ago.  They had an extensive settlement which had agriculture, fishing, possibly some domestication of animals along with hunting and a fairly sophisticated pottery making ability.  Their houses were made of sticks covered with a mud/straw mixture which was then hardened by fire.  They did cooking by using steaming pots and had some musical instruments as well as pottery decorated with black paint.  The exhibit talks about them being a matriarchal culture but we couldn’t figure out the evidence for that.

In the actual exhibit area, the kids enjoyed watching the movies which explained how they built the houses and what they guessed the society was like.  Just like yesterday, I go around mostly with Steffi and Christopher goes with Mollie.  Sophie and Maggie hang around together and Brendan scouts around on his own.

We enjoy the rain, the pond outside with beautiful water lilies and small Koi.  Just as we have been doing most days, we buy some ice cream as we get ready to leave.  There are small stores all over China which sell drinks and ice cream and sometimes other assorted groceries.  We’ve gotten used to the brands.  The prices vary from 1-2 yuan to 10-15 yuan at some museums.  I don’t always get something but this time I see a Mango popcicle.  It is wonderful mashed mango which is frozen.  In just a few minutes our bus arrives.  We are some of the first people on the bus this time, so we all get seats for the trip back.

In China, you learn to enjoy the little things like a cool popscycle, a seat on the bus, no crowds, and knowing your way home.   I also am very relieved when things go as planned.  When we get back to the hotel, we are able to get our train tickets for tomorrow and find that our seats are all close together.

Back at the hostel, we have the kids pack up while we try to figure out exactly how to get from the train station in Changsha to our hotel.  I have finally realized that although our hotel is called Motel 168 Railroad Station, it is not by the station we are going to arrive at by bullet train.

I start to panic and second guess my hotel choice, looking frantically around at other choices.  Finally, after a lot of internet searching and thinking, Christopher and I realize that all of the hotels are in the area I’ve chosen for our hotel.  He reminds me not to second guess myself.  We decide to catch two taxis to the hotel and Chris prepares both of our iPads with maps to the hotel.

 

July 23 Train Ride to Changsha

I had no idea that China was such a gorgeous country!  Seeing the country from the bullet train from Xian to Changsha is perhaps my favorite part of this trip.  Everything is green and lush and the small, beautifully tended farms go on and on.  Each small village is so picturesque and the small ponds and hills are lovely.  I had planned to get caught up on my journal during this trip, but I end up spending the whole time looking out the window and enjoying the scenes as they passed by.  I was so sorry that my camera wasn’t working since I had not gotten any good batteries, but I tried to make due with my cell phone camera.

The bullet train is easy to get on and very comfortable to ride.  We carry all our own luggage on with us, and getting into the station is easy.  In fact, we find we’ve come with plenty of time to spare.  The station is very similar to an airport and the clientele is too.  The cost is actually quite similar to flying but I’m looking forward to the experience of seeing the countryside and I was right.

The kids have a good time talking, eating snacks and using their devices.  At one point, we realized that we aren’t getting any food automatically.  Many of the people seem to be eating food they brought, another difference from the airplane trips.  I remembered then that I’d read you were supposed to bring your own food on the train but I had only brought some leftovers from breakfast.  Brendan, who was hungriest, was sent on an expedition to find food.  He found a dining car and I marched down with a couple of kids to see what we could buy.  We ended up buying all three of the meals they offered.   Bringing them back, we offered them to the kids first.  They liked the rice and some of the meat, but did not touch the vegetables or the fish.  Christopher and I loved the leftovers.  The fish was very tasty and the vegetables were good too.  So overall, we did pretty well.

After arriving in Changsha, we stopped at McDonalds to let the kids have an ice cream and then braved the taxi area.  We made the mistake of listening to some of the “independents” who were trying to solicit our business.  Finally I notice a line and we veer over there.  That is the registered taxi line.  After a short wait, we get our two taxis.  I show the driver the iPad address and he takes off.  We pass one Hotel 168 and then I remember that there is more than one in town.  I enjoy the ride around Changsha.  It is evening and so all the lights are on around town and the town looks newer, brighter and more modern and upbeat than I remember from the adoption trip.

Our driver finally stops at another 168 Hotel and we get out and I pay him a very reasonable 30 yuan.  Christopher is not there, but I assume he is coming, so I get in line to check in.  When the lady is waiting on me, she seems concerned and indicates they don’t have a room.  She keeps on telling me to call the number on my reservation.  I don’t understand.  I don’t have a phone. Then the lady next to me explains in English that I am at the wrong Hotel 168.  She says that the same thing just happened to her.  She had been at the hotel I was supposed to be at.  I ask her to have the lady write the correct address for me to show the driver and ask her where to pick up another taxi.  She tells me a place right out in front of the hotel.

I explain that we are from a small city which doesn’t have any taxis and she laughs.  As we walk out of the hotel, I remind the girls that we are so blessed to have God with us.  He gave us someone to help us just when we needed it. 

We go out in front (Maggie, Mollie and me) and immediately a taxi drives right up.  We get in and I show him the address and he nods to show he knows where to go. We get to see even more of the city as we go, but the trip is not far and Christopher and the rest of the crew is very relieved when we show up.

The people at this hotel don’t seem to really  have a record of my reservation, and I need to explain to them that we are going to stay two nights rather than one (Christopher’s Chinese graduate student Tommy had called the hotel and they had said we just needed to ask when we arrived and we could do this).  However, I’ve not gotten this far to be turned away now.  Eventually, they ask for a deposit and give us keys to three rooms.  Success!  At this point, I don’t care what the rooms are like, I just want to relax.  We find they haven’t given us double beds, but everyone is all right except for Steffi.  She finally agrees to sleep with me in the largish twin bed.  Everyone is delighted by the T.V. in the rooms, the American, rather than European shower (glass door with something to keep the water in the shower area and not all over the bathroom floor) and the spaciousness of the rooms.  There isn’t any Wifi, but the lan line is fast and I let Sophie and Steffi play on my  computer a bit.

We go next door for dinner and have an interesting mixture of Western steaks and Chinese food.  The free rolls and juice are nice, but the custard which is sort of a beef taste was a bit of a disappointment.  The steaks are served with spaghetti.  We’ve seen spaghetti a lot in China but it does have a different sort of taste to it.  The kids don’t like it too much.  We wonder if we can learn to say “plain noodles with no sauce.”  Generally, we pass around the food we don’t like and try to get something for everyone.

All of us have had to move a long ways from our comfort zone on this trip.  Along the way, we’ve seen the kids develop and learn to trust us, each other, and God more.  They don’t always like the food, the poverty, the smells or the discomfort of heat and walking.  Frankly, neither do we.  I’ve so realized my own inadequacy and how used I am to being a rich American.  I know there is growing up I need to do.

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